About Me
- GyrlGoneBAD
- They don't make 'em like me no more!!! I decided to create this blog so I am able to creatively express my thoughts and feelings. Twitter just wasn't doing it for me. I want this to be an interactive experience so feel free to comment, debate, argue, whatever...no rules here :)
Wednesday, April 14, 2010
Real Shit: A Person Only Treats You How You Allow Them 2
"A Person Only Treats You How You Allow Them Too"
It took me a long time to understand this statement. I use to think, "how is that so, I can't control one's action so how am I responsible". Then I realized...I am responsible for how I react to other's action and any repeat actions I allow to affect me. If you do not like the way someone is treating you let them know. If they continue the treatment then walk your ass away. If you want someone to change you must change as well to show you mean business. People learn their boundaries by experimenting what actions you accept. If your reaction is always the same just stop, I don't like it, and/or empty threats they will continue to taunt you.
This is very important when dealing with relationships. I'm going to share my experience and how I came to this conclusion.
Real Shit Series
I will posting blogs titled "Real Shit: Insert Topic". These blogs maybe be rants, vents, journal entries, advice or informational posts about real life shit situations. Feel free to comment as you please but keep my sensitivity in mind while doing so.
Thank you...I hope you enjoy my "Real Shit"
Thank you...I hope you enjoy my "Real Shit"
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